Here's to Your Magnificence - Inspiration for the Soul Issue 79 - with Debbie "Takara" Shelor   "Inspiring personal growth and empowerment through uplifting & informative self help articles about spirituality, dolphins, sacred travel, connecting with nature, healing, transforming the past, shamanism, world peace, living in a sacred way, product and service updates, plus much more"

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IN THIS ISSUE
 
Greetings
Subscriber Only Special
Growing Up by Debbie "Takara" Shelor
Today's Promotion

GREETINGS:
 
Delighted to be connecting with you again.
 
Yeee Haaw. Thats all I can say about the last month. What a truly wild ride of unexpected experiences, people, and insight. Hope you are having a grand time with the new energy.
 
Someone told me that they only received the first half of last month's issue. Let me know if you also received only part of your newsletter. I need to know if it was an isolated incident or something I need to address with the newsletter service.
 
Once again we have a time sensitive opportunity that ends on Sunday the 22nd. Be sure to read about the new book by Loral Langemeier.
 
May you be blessed in the radiance of the One. May you find joy, inspiration, and upliftment in these words.
 
Close your eyes for a moment. Take a few slow deep breaths and center yourself. Allow your Higher Self and guides to use this communication to assist you. Feel their loving, joy-filled, healing energy being poured into you and your world in this moment. Find something you are grateful for. From that space, read these words and allow them to bless both you and your life.
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SUBSCRIBER ONLY SPECIAL

There are so many new choices, I hardly know what to offer this month.
 
I've finally put all of Jonathan Goldman's music into essence form. That includes the chakra set everyone has been anxiously waiting for. Once the labels are done, they will all be available on the Dancing Dolphin Essences site.
 
Daniel Jacob, who channels The Reconnections, recently did a "Gathering the Clans and Tribes Conclave" in Sedona, Arizona and I created an essence for the Gathering and for each individual clan. According to Daniel, they were a big hit.
 
I've been personally working with the Essence of Camelot that I created with Richard Shulman's Camelot Reawakened music. It truly is magical. Little magical things just seem to happen all day long whenever I wear it. A whole bunch of my friends are using it daily as well. One friend is attending massage school. She put some on herself before she gave a massage recently. She exuded such a great feeling that even her client commented that he wanted whatever she was using.
 
The number of requests for custom blends has radically increased. Seems everyone is feeling they need a bit of help with the wild energies these days. So, through the end of October and All Hallows Eve, get a custom flower & gem essence blend with aromatherapy for just $22. They make an extraordinary gift. They are fabulous for kids going away to college. I had one loving mom call to get one for her daughter going to college. She decided to get one for herself and each of her other children as well. http://www.dancing-dolphin-essences.com/SubscriberSpecial.htm
 
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GROWING UP by Debbie "Takara" Shelor
 
Various things happen, whether you are a child or an adult, that leave you with feelings of anger, resentment, blame, and/or victimhood. In fact, I've never met anyone who hasn't had those feelings at one time or another. Some people never seem to get over them. Others just glide right through.
 
Some pretend they have gotten over the feelings - to themselves and others. But they have not. Those are the scary ones. They keep a really tight lid on the feelings pretending they aren't there. Yet it is virtually impossible to keep them controlled all of the time and they raise their ugly heads at truly interesting moments.
 
It comes out in harsh judgment, in an angry outburst, in irrational and/or illogical behavior or words. They are unsafe to be around because you never know when the nice person you know is going to turn into that other person - the one who is mean, vendictive, harsh verbally and/or physically. The wounded inner child always lashes out at some point. It has no other choice. No-one is paying attention to it and it is in pain. There are those that don't lash out. They lash in. They direct the energetic daggers at themselves and can develop severe illnesses as a result.
I greatly prefer spending time with people who have healed most of that crap. They have the courage to be real. They have learned how to communicate in a much more mature way.
 
When you love yourself and know that you are loved by God, you are no longer afraid of not being loved by others. That allows you to express when you are upset, feeling off, or having problems with something that has been said or done. You always take care to do it in a gentle, loving way, but you share your truth - whatever that is. Also, when you truly love yourself, you have the real ability to love another. And if you do not love yourself, it is absolutely impossible to truly love another. Until you find a way to embrace and adore self, you will never truly know what love is.
 
The more you've healed your past, the easier and more fun you are to be around.
 
No-one enjoys spending time with someone who thinks one thing and says or does something else pretending they aren't upset. The truth always comes out in one way or another. As an empath, I can usually feel it long before it happens. More and more people are tapping into their natural intuitive abilities, so "picking up" the incongruency is happening much more often. That means it is harder to hide from the truth or pretend that everything is O.K. when it is not.
 
It is time for you and me and everyone else to grow up.
 
What my spiritual friends and I are noticing everywhere we look is that the inner child is acting out in a big way because it wants to be heard and healed.
 
I'm sure you have been seeing it too. Whether it is someone you work with, someone you live with, someone you are in community with, or even yourself, people everywhere are observing irrational behavior and feelings because the inner child is no longer hiding in the shadows. It is standing in the spotlight screaming "Look at me. Please!"
 
If you have done any work with me at all, then I know you have already heard this many times. I will say it again because it is so important. When something surfaces and comes into your awareness, that is only the beginning of the healing. You can talk about it with a counselor. You can do a little ceremony of release. You can "get it" logically. You can do a million things. But chances are you haven't really done anything in the way of true healing. And I mean that literally. You have changed nothing. You haven't healed the wound. You haven't truly let it go. You have simply become aware of an issue and now have it as an excuse to fall back on any time something isn't working in your life. You get to say this happened to me or that happened to me, therefore it's not really my fault. Guess what? That is living life as a victim.
 
Do you want to be happy? Do you want to be healthy? Do you want to be truly loved and appreciated? Well guess what? You have to give up victimhood and blame to achieve those things. If you find yourself harshly judging another, then realize it isn't the other person you are mad at at all. Take a good look in the mirror, because it is you that is being judged. Why did you draw that person into your life? What were you thinking, saying, or doing that caused the behavior or the circumstance?
 
Remember that golden rule: "Treat others the way you wish to be treated." If you blame someone for something. Someone is going to blame you for something else. If you judge someone. You will be judged. If you are angry at someone. Someone will be angry with you. If you harm another. You will be harmed. It goes on and on and there is no escape from this rule because it is absolute. We are all feeling the call to be in community. Yet we want to be in community with those of like mind. We want harmonious relationships. We want to be with people that allow us to be who we truly are. People who allow us to express our feelings, our hopes, our dreams, and even our fears without being judged, without being criticized, and without holding unrealistic expectations of us. The only way that is possible is if everyone involved has healed and matured in their ability to interact with others. It takes a great deal of courage and can be very uncomfortable to talk about things that aren't working. Everyone is terrified of rejection. So they "stuff" the gripes they have and pretend that everything is O.K. Or worse yet, they become gossips and back stabbers. Let's face it. We've all done it at one time or another. It is time to let that all go.
 
I have an exercise in Freeway to Freedom that I call "Soothing the Inner Child." I'm pretty sure that you will not find it, or anything even remotely like it, anywhere else. I have clients who help others with inner child work as a profession - hypnotherapists, psychologists, etc. Some of them have as much as 20 years experience and they all say they have never seen anything like it and they are amazed at how effective it is. It works. And it is one of the only ways I've ever heard of to truly make the inner child feel safe enough to look at and heal the deepest wounds. As long as that kid feels threatened or afraid, I don't care what technique you use to heal the junk, you aren't going to be able to.
 
Human life is all about relationships. We are here to develop and nurture our relationship with others and with ourselves. How are you doing in your relationship with your body, your friends, your enemies, your siblings, your parents, your children, your work, your spouse, the earth, and all creatures great and small? Do you love and honor each one? Can you see the gifts each individual holds? Are you grateful for the role they play in your life? It all begins with your relationship with self. That is the one that must be healed and made whole.
 
No one is perfect. You do realize that don't you? Unless you are a full fledged Avator or Master, you have work to do on yourself and your relationships with others. If you can manifest money and food out of thin air, if you can heal the sick, and bring the dead back to life, if you can walk on water and turn water into wine, then you have no need for these words. The rest of us still have alot of work to do.
 
You are not perfect. Neither is your doctor. Nor am I.
 
You are human. Therefore, you have quirks. You have good days and you have bad days. You like certain people and you don't like others. Some people like you and some people don't. There are times when you judge and there are times when you are judged. Sometimes you are afraid. You make mistakes. So do the rest of us. It is called being human. Stop making it wrong. And stop judging others for being just like you are. We are all doing the best we can under the circumstances. We all have the opportunity to learn and grow and to get better at the things we don't do so well.
 
It is time to be much more gentle with yourself and others. And it is time to let the inner child be recognized and healed.
 
The energetics will continue to increase. So these situations where there is an outburst from the inner child will continue to increase as well. The best way to have great relationships is to heal the things that prevent them from being good now.
 
Freeway to Freedom: Discovering the Secrets of a Joy Filled Life by Debbie "Takara" Shelor. http://www.dancing-dolphin-essences.com/FromFear2Freedom.htm
 
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Want to stay on track and achieve every goal you have set for yourself? I highly recommend Simple-ology. I do it every day right after my meditation. I can't tell you how much more I've been accomplishing related to my goals. It is a fabulous program put together by someone I consider my mentor in the business and marketing world - Mark Joyner. It offers great assistance and insight regardless of the area your goals are in - personal and professional. There is no charge for Simple-ology 101. http://takara1.simpleology.com
 
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NEW BOOK BY LORAL LANGEMEIER
 
If one of your personal goals is to get your finances in order and to increase them greatly, then you need to read the Millionaire Maker’s Guide to Wealth Cycle Investing. It will change how you think about money—YOUR MONEY and show you how to become a millionaire in 3-5 years. This is one of the best guides to financial freedom that I’ve read and I wanted to share it with you right away. Loral Langemeier has helped thousands along the way to their financial freedom and you can now order this financial life-saver on line today and get piles of bonus gifts that Loral and her friends have put together just for you.
 
Here are just a few of the “gems of financial wisdom” that I found to be right on target:
** Wealth-Cycle investing ** Learn how to generate a self-perpetuating system of wealth-building through income generating assets.
** The worksheets ** Step by step guidelines along the way to your first million and beyond!
** Good debt vs. bad debt ** Learn how to build your monthly income first, and THEN get out of debt.
** Direct Investing ** Do it like the wealthy do: Invest directly in assets like real estate, businesses and more, and get FAR HIGHER RETURNS, without the middleman taking a piece of YOUR MONEY.
** Risk Analysis ** Loral’s book has two chapters dedicated to due diligence and risk analysis to protect your return on investment.
 
Here is what our highly respected colleagues are saying about Loral’s new book:
 
“Loral Langemeier’s message is a powerful one. She has helped thousands think, act, and invest the way the wealthy do.”
—John Gray, Ph.D., bestselling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus
 
“If you are ready to live out loud, read this book.”
—Mark Victor Hansen, coauthor, Cracking the Millionaire Code and The One Minute Millionaire
 
“Loral Langemeier’s book on Wealth Cycle Investing is ushering in a needed paradigm shift for investors. She truly is a Millionaire Maker.”
—Bob Proctor, author of You Were Born Rich
 
“Loral Langemeier proves once again that she is the King Midas of the current age. But she goes the King one better—because her ideas allow everything that you touch to turn to gold.” —Jay Conrad Levinson, author of the Guerrilla Marketing series
 
And those are just a few of the many endorsements of Loral and The Millionaire Maker’s Guide to Wealth-Cycle Investing. You will see even more praise and learn more about her new book (and order a book, or two!) at: Visit this site for details.
 
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THIS MONTH'S BREATHTAKING IMAGE
 
Jeff Rich has graciously agreed to let us bless you with his powerful wildlife and nature scene photographs in the newsletter. Visit his website http://www.jeffrichphoto.com to purchase and enjoy many more. The website showcases his nature and wildlife photography with information on the trips he leads and locations he photographs. He has turned a beautiful collection of baby bird images into a fabulous book. Information about the Baby Bird Book is currently on the home page.

Many blessings to your journey,

Deb

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